Hi, back online at last and not sure whether to resurrect the old site or build from scratch?
I’ve stuck in all the stuff from the original anExalky’sblog for the time being…
watch this space
Be well
fluke
Hi, back online at last and not sure whether to resurrect the old site or build from scratch?
I’ve stuck in all the stuff from the original anExalky’sblog for the time being…
watch this space
Be well
fluke
anExalky’sblog has now moved and been renamed to exalky.com
just click on the title above to visit
I will leave this blog online for a while but all new stuff will only be posted on the new site.
Thanks for your support
Be Well
fluke
Hi again,
I’m still here in blogland and no, I haven’t had a “slip” and gone back on the booze and drugs!
I have been busier than ever setting up my new business venture and am sorry to say that I’ve neglected anexalky’sblog for way too long.
However, I’ve still been researching loads of good stuff to help me (and you) in recovery that I will be posting in the very near future.
And I have some more news-I will be migrating a new redesigned exalky’s blog to my own server very soon-actually it’s partly done already – the new URL is exalky.com
catchy huh
check back soon
take care
fluke
Fear seems to come up all the time as I wander along my path-I imagine the same is true for a lot of AA’s
With that in mind, have a look at the EFT movie below-
Take Care
Fluke
Hi again,
and sorry for the lack of post’s of late – I’m still flat out at work, late shift and so not much family time, meetings, or anything else
But actually I’m grateful to be sober and feeling pretty good ;-D
Seems to me I’ve not mentioned anything about drinking for ages.
If you’ve got a problem with alcohol, or anything else for that matter, and you’ve just found this blog, stick around. Have a look at some of the older posts, click on some of the movies and links.
If alcohol is your problem, check out AA. Going to meetings is the main thing that has consistently kept me away from a drink, and allowed me to learn to change my life.
( I plan to post a links page for other helpful organizations soon..)
As for the rest, this is my way of relating to “a power greater than myself”, and the tools and ideas that are helping in my recovery, and in every aspect of my life today.
EFT (emotional freedom technique) is nothing short of amazing. A problem I have in recovery is that I have no memory of huge chunks of my past, because I spent a lot of time in “blackout”. Even before the alchohol and drugs, my “ism” had blocked out huge chunks of my childhood memory…
I am finding that as I treat a particular general area with EFT, for example “my general moodiness”, that the more specific thought/cause comes to mind. Then I treat that with EFT, and so on.
This stuff is really working for me, hopefully it can help you too.
stay tuned, the late shift is finishing soon so I’ll be posting more often ;-D
I’ve made a few tweaks to the blog, including updating the video bars, so if you’ve been here before have a good look, there’s lots of new stuff. Please leave a comment if you have time, it’s gettin’ lonely here in blogland lol.
Here’s a great movie to start your day, you may have seen it before but it’ll do you no harm ….
Be well,
Happy Thoughts
fluke
Hi,
I hope you had a good Valentine’s Day, but even if you didn’t, have a look at this great video from www.myGenie.tv
Happy Thoughts,
Be Well
Fluke
I can’t believe I haven’t posted since 18/01…
As usual I’ve been manic with work,family,meetings etc,
but fear not, I have been researching a fair bit as well
EFT continues to amaze! My Toothache has completely gone
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and I am finding improvements in my thinking all the time, in fact “defects of character” is seeming to mean “opportunity for improvement” right now.
To further my EFT studies I have been reading the “For Dummies” Emotional Freedom Technique edition by Helena Fone.
Popular opinion seems to be that it’s the best complete reference on the subject, as well as being very accessible and easy to read.
A great source of information on EFT and the law of attraction is David Childerley, a respected therapist and EFT expert, who you will recognise from some of the youtube videos on this page-there are lots more available for download at www.myGenie.tv
Another topic I have been looking at lately is the fast approaching “End of the Mayan Calendar” By far the best information I have seen so far is again on mygenie.tv –
(update: now available on the video bars ->>)
The Mayan Calendar: Amazing video lecture by Ian Xel Lungold
A 3hr lecture split into 2 googlevideo’s explaining the workings and meaning of the Mayan Calendar, and an idea of what to expect in the near future ;-D
be well
fluke
I’ve been really busy since getting home from me hol’s, loads at work, going to meetings, and loads of research and watching movies to post here
As for my experiences with EFT, I’ve been trying it out on alsorts-with some success!
Today I’ve been using it to soothe a f#%*ing EVIL toothache with AMAZING success!!
And I’m feeling pretty grateful about life in general-maybe I’m on an “EFT Pink Cloud”, so I think more serious investigation is required ;-D
Happy Thoughts
Fluke
Hello and a (belated) Happy New Year!
Sorry I haven’t posted for ages – I was sick as the proverbial parrot all over the holidays – most of which I spent in Poland, in bed in a hotel room, coughing and swearing at the polish overdubs on tv. All of my good intentions, the law of attraction, EFT, the whole lot went out of the window and I was in “sick grumpy bastard” mode. And no effing internet connection in my room!! ( cue tinny violin concerto for high class problems number 1 ;-D )
Full of fear again and still not recognizing it!! But still a million times better than full of fear and full of booze – my behaviour and general attitude wasn’t great, but I didn’t cause any carnage like the old days – so everything was ok really…
My general mood wasn’t helped by no AA meetings for a good three weeks, but despite the temptations of everybody else who was ill having “medicinal” shots of wodka/whatever every half an hour or so, I managed to avoid that first drink. Phew!! ;-D
I have no doubt that my regular attendance at meetings over the past years has kept me in good stead for my annual aversion therapy, but I’m definitely due for a recharge – in fact the first meeting I could get to after getting home-I was at ;-D
And I’m back on track with my investigations of the law of attraction and EFT – more soon…
I’m still nursing the last of my flu/cough, but at least back in the UK, back at work and going to meetings ;-D
Be Well,
Happy Thoughts,
Fluke
p.s. thought for the day from an AA friend – “09 – it’s mine!”